thanks to ayoi, kakisembang n jahred for ur helps
u guys said something abt felt something wrong, he can't look direct in the eyes and not sincere .. well what if, suppose he had to explain something to me abt something that had happened, but .. till now there's no explanation .. nothing from him .. seems like the things that had happened meant did affected him as much as it affected me .. i did felt sometimes that he's not sincere with me but its not easy jz to let him go for i still love him
do most guys had problem with their communication skills? do guys always had problem to communicate? or guys and gals didnt share the same frequency in communication?
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Well I have difficulties in expressing my emotions(in words/speech etc) either to my wife or to my kids. Most of the time by my actions like hugging, kissing etc. Btw IMHO, the questions are what are we looking/searcing/want from our partner, do your partner fill in the blanks in your relationship? Can you or he accept each other weaknesses? I remember one dialog from a movie -" I am not a perfect person, but so do you, but both of us make this relationship perfect."
action speaks louder than words, true ;) how abt if the guy is shy or not really talkative in nature, what should i do to make him speak out his mind thots or feeling? i cant ask him questions all the times rite? any tips?
i'm not that talkative type of person also ... so what you have to it's recognized by the way he acts or his expression :) maybe that could help la la la .. pst ayoi...sejak bila jadi doctor love ni? kehehe
Well it seems like u have to take the proactive role. You are the one who have to ask him. (Dun ask him whether he loves u or not, when to get married). But ask him about his vision, his goals, your relationship goals. From there you will know exactly whether he is trull commit to the relationship or not. But that's solely my opinion la.
Ohh and btw, ask him why he loves u. Ask him to give specific answer. Jawapan pasai, because u r nice, u r beautiful taklei accept. If he loves you, he knows how to answer that properly :D
Jawapan pasai, because u r nice .. slalu dpt jawapan ni .. sometimes i did wonder awat lah jawapan terlalu general ..
pst ayoi...sejak bila jadi doctor love ni <-- awat? sblm ni ayoi ni tak pernah bg advise ker? :P
If he can't look straight in your eyes while communicating, then he's hiding something. I think it's a common knowledge that eyes won't lie.
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yup .. its sickly true .. the eyes will tell .. hate that as i cant look at his eyes as he's not in kl currently
i just wanna say that everythings that happened in ur life just was destiny .. THE GOD has destined u to have something like that .. anything .. just beware that u'll through it .. :P
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